so when we finally get to the apt.. they have a gift for tim.. WHO I got the feeling ALL women were pinning for his attention.. which to find out they have only met once.. the girls met tim who was visiting last year.. he decided to go to church..( WHICH THEY ARE ALL CHRISTIAN.. ) crazy.. CRAZY as that is RARE.. but anyways so funny to see this nerdy guy get treated like a god.. at the chance of MAYBE LOVE.. gross... but sweet all in a weird way..
it was so FUNNY me being me.. my love and PURE interest in people I was asking one of the STRONGEST LOUDEST japanese women I have EVER MET.. as right when she came out the station she was on the phone TALKING SO LOUD.. she stayed on the phone the ENTIRE time till we got to the apt.. which was a good 30 minutes..
to then tell me I was being rude by asking so many questions.. she said japanese people do NOT do this.. in a big setting.. they sit back and just watch and observe the relationships everyone has.. rather then just asking.. hey so how do you know mika.. they will sit back and see if they can figure OUT by their conversation HOW THE KNOW..
what the hell.. all I am asking is FOLLOW up question to YOU.. asking me.. hey what state are you from.. then YOU telling me.. I have been to ALL 50 states.. yes I know.. YES I KNOW..
I just wanted to know.. are you a FETCHING MOTHER..are you married.. I DIDNT ask how old you are..
but none the less. she was VERY entertaining.. I could NOT help myself.. with making fun of myself and HER all at the same time.. as when tim was opening his gift from the girls.. they had gifted him a kimono.. then they bust out telling me to try it on.. which I did.. then this lady was like .. her mika get out your stuff. ( which i felt bad.. IT was fun to be getting all suited up.. interesting.. but here mika was getting orders.. NEVER MIND she had cooked.. etc.. etc.... EVERYTHING.. but she is friends with this lady so she knows.. ALL THE while.. I am saved by KIM.. the missionary who knows SO much japanese.. and is translating all sorts of conversation....... what was also funny is lady in blue blouse.. was roughing me up... while turning me this way.. kept slapping my bum.. telling meet suck in.. DUDE.. believe me... I have been mORE TICKED about this stomach.. this is WHAT there is NO sucking in.. its ALL stretched out!!!
bottom line.. this was some fun that I was glad to experience.. truly was a champ.. stupid . but I was grateful you didn't bomb your pants.. as where would I have changed you.. just NOT convenient and would have smelled the whole space up.. which I am sure is not hard to do:) but i kept thinking this in my mind.. as you hadn't yet.. I was thinking PLEASE just hold whatever.. and give it to me later:)
aaaahhhhh so many scattered thoughts!!!