theordora is the one that is french.. she really has given me SOOOOO much understanding.. she is truly amazing.. her third matches up with ozzy.. so with that.. it has taken until about a month ago for us to connect due.. to when you have a small one.. that is your focus until they become a bit more independent.. never the less.. she shared celia with us.. and has been able to again leave me with a warm fuzzy feeling.. that i came here with.. something I didn't want to leave without.. but there was a time I was thinking it might be hard to get back!!!!!